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From Silence to Strength: How Neelam Is Taking a Stand Against Child Marriage
April 1, 2025

In the small village of Maniklalo in Jharkhand, India, where the norm is to marry off girls as soon as possible, one young woman is daring to imagine—and fight for—a different future.

Meet Neelam

Neelam grew up in a family where money was tight and expectations were tighter. Her father earned just a few hundred rupees a day operating a manual cart, and like many girls in her village, Nilam was seen not as someone with dreams, but as someone to be married off early—just as her older sister had been. The pressure to marry as a child haunted her, and though she often confided in classmates about her fears, the courage to speak out beyond the schoolyard eluded her.

As she grew older, life became more restricted. She wasn’t allowed to leave the house without questions. Villagers began watching her movements. The world felt smaller, and Neelam’s voice felt like it was shrinking too.

Then, everything changed.

One day, Neelam met Sinty from the local Tech Center, run by FAT (Feminist Approach to Technology)—a VOW-supported, community based organization. Sinty shared how the center was a space for girls to learn, grow, and gain digital skills—while also building confidence and leadership. Neelam said yes, hoping it would be the safe space she had longed for.

At first, she was quiet. Unsure. The self-confidence stripped from her by years of patriarchy didn't return overnight. But the facilitators at the Tech Center believed in Neelam. They listened. They invited her to workshops and entrusted her with responsibilities. Slowly, she began to speak. Then she began to lead.

And when she learned about child marriages being planned in her village? Neelam took action.

On her own, she visited the families of girls facing early marriage—sharing the harms of child marriage, the rights of girls, and the laws protecting them. She spoke with clarity and compassion. And she made a difference.

So far, Neelam has stopped three child marriages.

But her impact doesn’t stop there.

She completed her computer course at the Tech Center. She commutes from the city where she now studies to stay connected and mentor others. She dreams of becoming a social science teacher—not just to teach facts, but to empower the next generation of girls to stand up, speak out, and shape their futures.

“I want to teach girls to fight for their rights from a young age,” Neelam says, “and raise their voices against social evils.”

Neelam is living proof of what’s possible when a girl gets the chance to choose her own path. With the right support, spaces, and opportunities, girls like Nilam are not just imagining a better world—they’re building it.

About VOW for Girls

From wedding registry donations to partner product purchases, everything donated to VOW (that’s 100% of donations!) goes directly to community-driven efforts to help girls around the world. Our grantees, which are mainly women-led local organizations, use the funding we provide to directly support girls.Twelve million girls a year, some as young as 8, become child brides. VOW is a global movement of the wedding industry community, partners and couples who are dedicated to a world where no child is ever a bride and where every girl has the chance to live the life she loves.If you’re in the wedding industry and you’re interested in becoming involved, please find more wedding inspiration and advice in our blog, consider becoming a VOW Pro partner and learning more about VOW’s mission to end child marriage. If you’re an engaged couple and want to learn more about supporting VOW, please visit our couples page. We can’t wait to see what good we can do together!